Custody trials are always stressful for everyone involved. It is very trying on parents and children. Before a child custody trial, all attempts to reach an agreement should have been exhausted. During a trial the worst things are brought out about each parent. Even after the trial is over it is hard to work together in the best interest of the child or children after all the hurtful ugly words have been voiced. Children often feel they must choose one parent over the other causing unnecessary stress or anxiety for the child. If it is impossible to reach a workable custody agreement then a child custody hearing must be set.
Though knowledgeable legal counsel you can determine whether you have a good case or not. Your attorney should provide honest advice this is a matter of you and your children’s lives. Legal counsel should assist in preparing you for the best outcome. There are things you can do and need to know. Document everything. Keeping a log of everything concerning the children and the other parent is time consuming and difficult but will be beneficial to the outcome. Note accounts of what you and your children do in order to provide evidence of everyday occurrences. Calendars and journals are good sources of reference for you and your attorney. Before using audio recorders ask your attorney when they are admissible and when they are illegal to use. Recording the other parent saying ugly things about or to your child or children can be very useful in court.
Photographs and videotaping can be used to show the conditions the child is in when returned to you. Photographs are evidence of times spent with the children. If possible having photos of the conditions the child or children or living in while at the other parents house can be vital in court. Are they sleeping, eating and living in sanitary safe conditions. Any health issues of the child and the arrangements of a parent to accommodate to ensure safety are crucial. A child’s needs should be put above and before the wants the parent. Visual evidence is undeniable and vital to the case in the best interest of the child. Witnesses can testify to circumstances and situations that directly affect the children and be extremely beneficial in a custody case.
Much time should be spent with your attorney preparing for your case. Witnesses, photographs, documentations, videos and anything affecting the case should be thoroughly considered. Preparation is a must in order to end the case on a good note in the best interest of the children. McDowell Chartered can provide legal counsel for you and your children. At a reduced rate for the initial consultation we recognize your needs and provide honest advice concerning you case. Contact McDowell Chartered at (613) 269-0746 to receive prompt answers to any questions you may have.